Christy
I am a Heartless Bitch because every time someone has called me a
Bitch, I took it as a compliment rather than an insult. I have found that
people who call anyone a Bitch are generally either low on the self esteem food
chain or compelled to make themselves feel holier than thou by calling you a
Bitch, or they are a Bitch themselves and complimenting you on your ability to
think for yourself. Either way, it is a compliment - the stupid people say
it to make themselves feel a bit better, and the real Bitches say it as a "way
to go!" statement.
I used to be constantly annoyed by the astounding amount of dumb people
aimlessly walking the planet, as they always labeled me a 'Bitch' because they
felt I was stuck up or a snob. As I think about it, maybe I am. Not
because I think I am better than anyone else by dressing better, driving a
better car or having tons of money, because I have none of those things that
some women (and men for that matter) think validate them. I am probably
labeled such things because I never bought into their "Woe is me" dribble and,
God forbid, told them what I honestly thought of said dribble when they ASK for
an opinion or advice. Their faces are generally in shock, and always
followed by a "Well, you wouldn't understand since you seem to think the world
is perfect" comment. No, my world was and never is perfect: I was abused
as a child, worked for what I have and have dealt with life's quirky ups and
downs just as everyone else does. The only difference, and hence why I must be a
Bitch, is because instead of waiting for someone else to fix my messes I clean
them up myself and make a mental note to never make those mistakes again.
Instead of blaming other people for the horrible state I feel my life is in I
make an effort to change it for the better. Why waste time trying to
figure out who is to blame for your problems when it is quicker to look into the
mirror and say "Okay honey, you really screwed yourself on THAT one - now fix
it!"?
I'd much rather have the title of Bitch than wasting away wallowing in
self-pity.
Country: United States of America
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