Laura
For some very strange reason, I'm not flattered when a guy assumes
that my not having a dick means he needs to protect me.
I care more about my grades then all the ego petting, brainless flirting,
and uncomfortable outfits that seem to be essential to getting/keeping a
boyfriend.
Mind games bore me. As do assholes. I'm vocal about this.
There is nothing wrong with just asking the guy out. Really. I promise, if
he's put off by it, he's not good enough for you. If he didn't like you, you've
saved yourself some pining. If it's hard for you, it probably is for him to, and
you'll be saving someone you like pain. I have very little experience in
this area so I could be missing something huge but...?
I respect the decisions of other women and men, and expect them to return
the favour. To clarify: The idea of staying home with children makes me queasy.
Very queasy. This is a fact, not a cute idiosyncrasy I will grow out
of.
I am deeply invested in having a stimulating, profitable career (naive and
Bitchy, you say). I will not give up this career to have babies, biological
clock or no.
I will expect any future spouse to do 50% of the household shit. I do not
need for there to be future spouse. I'd be happy on my own.
I like feeling good. I feel good when I'm relaxed, comfortable, and am
doing things that have value to me with people I like. I mention this only
because certain people seem to feel I should feel good if they approve of me,
and will grant me that approval if I do none of the above in public.
Drama free sex sounds far more appealing to me than "sex with U'r
1twuLurrrv!!1111!!1"
Typing that made me wince, and I'm not afraid to admit it.
How sexy I feel has nothing to do with how many guys, or girls, for that
matter, stare at my legs.
I am intellectual, abrasive, and not ashamed of it.
My friends, many of whom I've known for years and love deeply, are
more important than any guy who is not one of those
friends.
Country: Canada
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