Alison
I have no idea whether or not I'm a Heartless Bitch according to you. What matters to me is that I found your site and I loved it. I couldn't give a rat's ass if I meet your criterion for Heartless Bitchiness today, but trust me when I say, I'll continue to be inspired by you for weeks to come. I'm a work in progress, I've had my Bitchy moments, like the time I yanked my kids out of school and told their alcoholic, control freak, woman hating principal that he was unprofessional, disgusted me in every possible way and that if he came near my children again, I'd have him arrested. I home schooled them for six months during which time I also left my wealthy dentist husband, kept the house and everything in it and made damn sure that he paid through the nose for the privilege of getting rid of me. The ex continues to harass me from time to time, but I now represent myself, which I have found to be not only cost-effective but incredibly empowering. By the way, I keep everything and make notes of everything and every time his bull-dog lawyer tries to accuse me of something, I've got the proof that the ex is lying. I truly enjoy making a public fool of the ex. (Note: not a man-hater, re-married to a gorgeous man with who I am happy and who does his own laundry, cooking etc.)
I've also been a real suck too, and I'm embarrassed by it, so no more details. I started my own business, I'm a hypnotherapist specializing in helping women, dehypnotizing them from the idea that indentured slavery is a requirement for womanhood, went against the wishes of the ex, my parents and some of my friends in my choice of profession. Piss me off too many times, you get dropped. I have no time for fucking around. At age thirty-two I was diagnosed with a rare tumor (it might come back, that's why I have no time for idiots, manipulators or lying around feeling sorry for myself). I fired my Canadian oncologist for being an ignorant ass and went to the States for treatment, that's why I'm still here (age 41 now). I do not ever, ever tow the party line, I think for myself and I challenge status quo. I have a ridiculously good memory for things, so don't try to turn things around and escape by playing dumb, because I'll be more than happy to remind you of what you said, did etc. Most men have two balls, I have three. I have more guts than most people I've met. I want to join this group because it sounds like the kind of place where women with three balls might be appreciated. If that's not the case, it's still been a pleasure just reading your site and writing this application. I thoroughly enjoyed reminding myself of my Bitchy qualities and if nothing else comes of it then I'll still be quite satisfied.
Country: Canada
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