Brandilee
I want to start off by gushing, now I know gushing is definitely not
a Heartless Bitch trait so I will take the beatings and continue. I have
been banned from a number of female boards for my opinions, because I am
definitely not a soft-minded woman who tra lalala's her way through life as a
vapid materialistic fluff head, nor am I a man hating feminazi who thinks we are
owed something because we have a vag, and men are the devil. I fall somewhere in
the middle. So normally I just hang out with guys because I can tell it like it
is and no one gets all huffy and creates a drama fest because I hurt their
wittle feewings. So you can imagine my giddy joy at reading this site for the
first time.
I read your manifesto and I nodded my head throughout all of it except the
first point. I fear I am a shameless romanticaholic. I love schmoopy music,
movies, and books. But I do understand that you have to make your own happiness,
and you cannot force your romantic idealism on to some poor fella just because
you feel you deserve it as a woman. You should appreciate the romantic sentiment
in everyday life. My fiancé bringing me home a bouquet of pens speaks louder
than if he brought me home a bouquet of roses that I would promptly beat him
with.
But I agree with all your other points, and I think under the point about
Kenny G and Michael Bolton you should add Michael Buble as he is the current
Michael Bolton. I have always argued the point with many women about how using
your tits and ass to get your way through life is not feminism as you still are
doing it for MEN.
But to finally get to the question posed: Why are you a Heartless
Bitch?
I am a Heartless Bitch because I understand the importance of
individuality, and independence. I don't bend, and I do not kneel to anyone's
ideal of what I should be. I have my own opinions and my own thoughts and if
they offend someone well they can go fuck themselves because at the end of the
day I have to answer to myself and my own conscience. If you ask me if those
pants make your ass look fat, I won't sugar coat my response and I won't try to
placate you to make you feel better about yourself. People come to me when they
want honesty because they know that I won't mince words. I am a Heartless Bitch
because I won't accept women who whine and Bitch about men, or read cosmo and
think it's giving them valuable insight to relationships and I have no qualms
with telling them they're being retarded for doing so.
I won't say I subscribe to the typical ideal that a Bitch is someone who
hates life and everyone else. I don't see a Heartless Bitch as someone who
is mean-spirited towards everyone because life has dealt them shit cards, and
instead of dealing with it they use that repressed anger to lash out at everyone
else and make them feel like shit. I don't think it's right to purposely hurt
someone to make yourself feel better. That is not a Bitch, that's a cunt.
I am made from stern stuff, and I come from stern stalk. My mum is a
Heartless Bitch of the highest degree and there is one ideal I hold dear. Never
settle for less than what you deserve.
Country: Canada
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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