Gretchen
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I refuse to accept or be judged by the standards of society. Who is society accountable to? What gave them the right to say what is socially acceptable or not? How can anyone be compared to a standard labeled 'normal'. Someone somewhere had to decide what that standard was going to be and to what it would be applied. Well I don't know who or when it was, but I do not agree.
The common definition of normal reads: conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnormal; regular; natural. My point exactly! Every one of those terms had to be defined by someone who was persuasive enough to convince others of their authority and it snowballed from there. Average, now that is definable without subjecting me to anyone else's standards. I live by my own standards based on my perceptions and experiences, and if anyone doesn't like it they can Bite Me. Don't expect to judge me without retaliation.
I have a low tolerance for inconsideration. Don't subject those around you to your ineffective parenting skills. I am all for kids need to be kids, but there's a time and a place. Don't take your child to a public place unless they can behave. If your in a restaurant and your child is running around like it's a playground, it's not cute or appreciated by other diners. We all are there to enjoy our dinner, not watch someone's kid wipe snot, drool or the dog crap the played with outside on every surface from the table down. If they have whining, crying, or tantrum episodes get them the hell out and don't ruin my dinner, cause I have no problem telling your kid to shut up, and I don't have to be nice about it either. Clue #1, ignoring the behavior will not make it go away. It's called courtesy, and I will show you and your family or friends the same courtesy you show me and mine. Ruin my dinner, movie, concert or whatever and I WILL ruin your evening and make sure you're up all night comforting nightmares.
My goal in life is to make sure me and my family enjoy every moment we can. We live life our way and after 20 years I can still say my husband is my best friend as well as my passion. We have a lot of common interests and always have a great time whether it's out somewhere or home playing cards. We also have enough different interests to keep from smothering. Give us a Harley, a tent, a change of clothes, and $20 and we'll show you an awesome weekend. We have one daughter who's almost 18. Love her to death she's mature, respectful, intelligent and a great person in general. At the same time I am glad she is raised and I am young enough to have plenty of life left to live without being tied down. Selfish? Maybe, but it's my life and I am living it for me.
I believe in population control. The human population is too large to sustain itself much longer without decimating the planet. I respect your right to disagree with my view, but that doesn't mean that either of us is wrong. I can agree to disagree, if you can't then step back. I have no tolerance for anyone who can't respect my right to my own opinion.
I am the type of friend that accepts you for who you are and appreciates the quirks that make you special. Cause everyone knows I have plenty of my own quirks that are just as irritating as the next persons. I love a good discussion and have been known to argue a view that I don't even agree with if I think someone is very closed minded.
I am human, just as complex as anyone else. I don't believe I'm better than anyone else, just different. I am me, I am happy with me. This is my life to live my way and as long as you don't try to impose your standards on me, we'll get along just fine.
Country: United States
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