Iniya
I am not sure if I am a heartless bitch yet. But if the qualities in the
HBI homepage are those that a heartless bitch has, I would sure want to
aspire to all of them.
I have to confess I still believe that things get right in the end. Some
of the love songs do move me a bit. I am yet to outgrow all of the fairy
tales. But yes, I can see the hypocrisy and double standards often. My
beliefs for most part are non-gender specific. I believe that everything
comes right at the end of the story and if it isn’t all right yet, the
story isn’t over.
I am single and completely believe I can survive well without a guy in
my life as a "boyfriend" or "husband". I don’t hate men. I love my
brother and I loved my dad and I like many of my guy friends. Well, I do
feel like hitting them on their heads when they say things like "it is
good if your wife has a job but not a career".
I have a "sieve brain". I can’t stay angry for long and for my own good
(I think) I forgive and let go easily (generally). So I am not
particularly angry with stupid men because I keep forgetting. I try not
to repeat my mistakes and learn from them. I try to move on always. I am
generally quite self aware. I try to correct my mistakes first before
looking at others’ faults. However I am working on cutting myself a
little more slack.
I want to be a member of HBI, to smile a little and laugh a lot reading
your rants. I want to read your thoughts as I believe they will help me
think clearly. I would really like to have some girl friends who are
more experienced than I am. I might be a bit of a whiner at times. But I
want to grow and so want to belong to a forum of strong and cool women.
Country: India
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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