Rei
Chick lit does nothing but piss me the hell off. So do "chick flicks"
and anything else that I'm supposed to want to watch and giggle over as
determined by the fat fucks in Hollywood. Oh yeah, all women are supposed to be
fashion-obsessed, dog-loving, frosted-pink-wearing, wedding/baby-hungry clones
that need a man in their life before the age of 30.
As if!
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I don't need a man and I don't need a baby,
and even though I have both a man and a baby in my life, that doesn't mean that
I'm going to drop everything and identify myself as a wife and mother and guess
what? Sometimes I don't really give a shit about what my kid is doing during the
day. That doesn't make me a bad mother. Maternal instinct and the unconditional
love of a mother are fabrications; motherhood is learned and love is developed
over time, respect is earned. Getting knocked up does not a mother make.
I'm not going to wait around my whole life thinking that I need
someone to serve as my emotional slave while I'm their slave for every thing
else. If I want something, I will grab it. I don't act the way I'm
supposed to, I don't dress the way they want me to, I will not be a teacher
because the only kid I want to deal with is the one that push out myself. That's
another thing. My body is my own...I choose to be as fat as I want, as thin as I
want, I don't have to wear make-up and I bleed once a month and I'm damn proud
of it. Doctors aren't going to pat me on the head and give me an epidural for my
brain while cutting me open. I don't listen to lies and propaganda.
I'm not a dyke and I don't hate men but I do hate the idea that when a
woman is considered to be strong she must be one or both of those former ideas.
I am good at science and math and I am getting straight A's in my classes
despite being told in middle school that girls just aren't as good at math. I am
polite and soft spoken but that doesn't give people a license to walk all over
me and I let them know it.
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