Brandie
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I'm honest and outspoken, two qualities that are very important to me, both of myself and of other people, and which are becoming less and less accepted in our society and more and more likely to be considered the definitions of what makes a "Bitch". Except, unlike most of society, I don't consider it a bad thing. Sure, it gets me in trouble sometimes, but that's not going to stop me. Even when it gets me in trouble I consider it better than not having been myself. Getting in trouble once in a while is a part of life. It helps you grow into a better person. If someone tells me I'm a Bitch, I say "Good, that means I've still got it."
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I'm the girl that tells it like it is and "goes there". I say what I think whether I'm asked or not. I really do not see the point in these stupid, unspoken rules of society involving being polite, sweet, or nice when it's not what you really feel. I think society would be a lot better off if you could trust that what everyone was saying was the honest-to-God truth, even if it was cruel. I'd rather be in a room full of Bitches telling me I'm a fugly fat insecure ho if that's what I was, than to be beautiful and confident in a room full of people that would say that no matter what I was. So I can take what I dish out, in fact, I thrive on it. After all, I'm not perfect - I definitely have my insecure, whiny, bullshit moments and sometimes I need a Bitch slappin' to get right again.
I'm a Heartless Bitch because the other side of the honesty coin is that I also think people just need to deal with the idea that they aren't perfect or that others aren't always going to agree with you or who you are. If someone tells you that you do look fat in those jeans, that you are an insecure, whiny, annoying cling-on, or that what you just said or did was weak sauce, take it like a real woman, dammit! That goes for men too. Haha. Don't get all offended and start a bunch of pointless drama over it. That stuff was said for a reason, either the person that said it is a piece of shit that is a waste of time, or it's the truth and you need to take a good long look at yourself and consider making some changes that can only mean you'll feel better about yourself in the end. Either way, move the fuck on.
I am a Heartless Bitch because while I'm brutally honest, I'm also very sweet, loving, and kind to those I care about - when they aren't being idiots. When they are being idiots, well let's just say the honesty thing makes it hard to be sweet, huh? Making others happy makes me happy, not that I can't be perfectly happy otherwise, because sometimes making others unhappy makes happy too. But never when they don't deserve it. I may be a Bitch, but I'm a classy Bitch. I don't waste my time on those who aren't worth it - whether that means being extra nice to them or going out of my way to be mean to them. Vengeance and grovelling are both wastes of time. I've got better things to do. Like make the rest of the world a better place for all of us, not just me.
Country: United States
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