Kymbooly
First and foremost, I don't want to have children. Ever. Never have done, still don't want to, and that's not going change anytime in the future. Not to suggest that I don't necessarily like children, I just prefer to keep my apartment puke, shit and child free. I find nothing more condescending than having a total stranger (or worse still, a family member) smile sympathetically, nod and say, "Oh but you're only young, you'll change your mind..." as if having been born with a uterus, somehow predetermines my need to pump out babies. Even more vomit inducing, is that these assumptions are usually followed with "...when you find the right guy." Ugh!
I'm not some stupid house-wife-in-waiting, searching for Prince Charming to sweep my off my feet and erase my credit debt. Last time I checked, I seemed to be doing quite well, studying full time, living in a fantastic apartment all for myself. Of course I have to stretch my paychecks out to support my way of life, but it's not like I'm starving out on the street. If I'm going to start a relationship with anyone, it's not going to be based on their Daddy potential, or on their ability to keep me feeling all financially secure. Sure I've just ended a three and a half year "relationship", but it lasted so long because we lived apart and got to spend time together when we liked, this way we ended up being best mates and still got to call our own shots.
In the words of Two-Hands Revy from Black Lagoon, "I make it a point never to fuck Ass-holes. Or Pussy's." I have no sympathy for anyone who's too stupid to learn from their own mistakes, no time for the self-serving and material-obsessed, and no patience for sleazy ass-grabbing wankers. I'll sleep with whoever I want, when I want, but there's a world of difference between being confident in your sexuality, and allowing yourself to be treated like some douche-wads' play thing and ending up with absolutely no self respect.
Country: Australia
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