I am tired of everyone telling me how I'm supposed to act and what
I'm supposed to want because I'm a woman. According to the world, I
should be thin, blonde, passive, unambitious, play "second fiddle" to
men and generally non-offensive to men. Screw that! I don't think that I
need to look anorexic to be considered attractive and you know, I don't
even think I care if I am considered attractive! Hell, I'm just me and
I'm pretty happy that way. Chubby, opinionated, brave and curious about
life.
I'm sick of people telling me that I'll "scare men off" by actually
having a personality! I'm also fed up with men and women asking me if
I'm lonely being single, as if I sit wistfully staring out the window
all day waiting for Mr. Right to appear. I'm sick of men who want to be
"taken care of", so that they can refuse to grow up and act like adults.
I'm also sick of simpering women who play up to these men. I just want
to live my life to its fullest and enjoy it without having to kowtow to
someone else's irrational demands.
It's amazing how many of my unhappily married women friends are so eager
to see me hitched up with someone (anyone!), when they are so miserable
in their relationships. I've heard of misery loving company, but
really! I lose my patience often with women in that situation, as many
of them like to moan and complain about their husbands, but never do
anything about the situation! Puhleeze! Get a backbone! If he's so
awful, ditch him. Stop complaining and actually, ACT! And stop trying
to set me up with some loser just so that I can be as unhappy as you!
Repeat after me - "You don't need a man to be happy....you don't need a
man to be happy". Radical, huh?!
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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