Heather
Some people have described me as: too aggressive, opinionated, blunt and said that I come on too strong. At times some of that is true and at other times, that is someone else's insecurity talking.
I have walked across this planet for 34 years with a brain (not a penis) as my organ of choice and I am not afraid to use it.
I don't care about your gender, race or religion. I care about what is in your thoughts, ideas and values.
You earn my respect--you don't just get it given to you because of who you MAY think you are. I am not afraid to stand up for what I believe in - I really don't care what other people think about me doing so. I don't go looking for a fight but I don't back away from one either. I can stand my ground and I don't get "run over" by others who may feel that they have some type of "power" over me. I learned long ago that for people to have power over me, I have to have let that happen. The only person with power over me is myself. I decide what I need and when I need it.
I have better things to do that deal with people who play "power games" based on how they look. If you are using your looks and/or body as a way to get a head (no pun intended) then I have no time for you. Too bad you don't have enough self-confidence to let your mind and your abilities help you move forward.
I don't have time to cater to your ego - I tell it like it is and then move on. I also want to hear the truth - please save the sugar coating for Christmas cookies. If you are telling me what I don't want to hear - I can handle it, deal with it and move on.
I value people who are hard working, honest and who "tell it like it is." I respect people who generate and nurture their own self worth and who do not rely on others to boost their self-esteem.
I have spent many years becoming a strong and independent woman - to date all of them have been without a card that confirms it. I will never give that up - regardless of the labels that other people hang on me.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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