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Holly

I am an attractive, highly educated, single female with no interest in finding a "mate." I have no fear of being a "spinster."

I have been celibate for four and a half years and don't regret it for a moment.

12 years ago I was married with a child and when I realized I had neither spousal nor maternal instincts I jettisoned the husband and sent the child with him (my son's stepmother also got rid of the husband but adopted my son, with my full approval- she's the great mother I could never be). I had the audacity to change my destiny.

I have no time for stupid or ignorant people who refuse to enrich their minds. The gender of the objects of my scorn in this case is irrelevant.

I am blunt, honest, ambitious, strong and assertive.

I am working on a Ph.D without a man around to "help me through."

I was repeatedly abused as a child by my insane mother and have never whined about it or let it stop me from functioning as a woman who knows how to achieve her goals while enjoying life.

I am fearless but for two things: going to the dentist and flying.

I would rather spend weekend nights at home, alone, with a good (non-fiction) book than out on the town with "the girls" (who?) or on a date. Books are infinitely more interesting than most people I meet.

I am not interested in cooing over people's children or listening to stories about how happy/miserable someone's spouse/significant other makes them. Write it in a journal, folks. I reserve most sentimental feelings for my animals.

I do not define myself by my gender. I define myself as an intelligent human being. Period. For whatever reason, our society wants to define its members by gender (and I admit I am guilty to some degree of the same. We all have our moments). I don't particularly think of myself as a bitch, but the very qualities I have listed above are the traits that others pick out to label me as such. It's an old cliché, but true: if a man exhibits these qualities, he's defined as strong and powerful, while women exhibiting the same tend to be labeled bitches, frigid, dykes, or some similarly charming moniker. Despite societal labels, I like how I am. I am not a wishy-washy girly type. I don't enjoy the company of very many people. I get things done and done right. I have no problem lashing out at people who truly deserve it (and on that point I will concede that I am a bitch on par with the best of them). This is me, and if people choose to not enjoy my company because of it, that's fine with me. I certainly don't miss having them around.

Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches

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