Jill
Well, as somebody who is sixteen, I feel like I have not made it to full
"Heartless Bitch potential," yet. It makes me wonder what the term
"Heartless Bitch" really means. Is a "Heartless Bitch" somebody who will
voice their feelings, opinions, and needs as openly as men? Is a
"Heartless Bitch" somebody who won't let gender decide what they wear
and what they want to be in life? Is a "Heartless Bitch" somebody who
won't be submissive and refuses to wait for things to be handed to them?
If that's what being a "Heartless Bitch" is, I believe that I am one
now, and will become an even stronger "Heartless Bitch" in the future.
However, maybe I won't because I fail to see what is so "heartless" and
"bitchy" about being a strong woman. If somebody asks me a question, I
am going to give the person an honest answer. I won't intentionally try
to hurt their feelings, but if they ask I'm not going to tell them just
what they want to here. I will not sit back quietly when somebody says
something I disagree with. And I certainly will not let anyone dictate
to me how I should act, just because I have a cunt.
I've been blessed to have had very strong women role models in my life,
and I pity the girls my age who want to bend down to what "society"
conveys as normal. I refuse to be another girl who hates herself because
she is not a size four, just as I refuse to hate myself for not looking
like some conventional Barbie doll. That's not who I am, nor who I wish
to be. I refuse to let myself fall victim to anything, or anyone. Shit
happens, but if you come out of it stronger than you were when you went
into it, you win. I refuse to be the submissive listener. I will work
hard for what I get, and I won't let anybody take it away from me
without a fight.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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