Laura
I think that the criteria required to be categorized as a "Heartless
Bitch" is the criteria that every human being should meet. Every human
should possess enough self-respect and self-confidence to stand up for
their own interests.
Am I a Heartless Bitch because I don't take shit?
Am I a Heartless Bitch because I value my own happiness and success over
other people trying to leech my confidence from me? I thought that was
just being normal. Any human being that lacks the self respect and
confidence in themselves to stand up for their own interests in a frank,
unmerciful, uncensored, and straightforward manner is a weak and
selfless individual. I pity them.
Self-respect, and courage to stand up
for that self-respect, should not make someone a Heartless Bitch, it
should make them a normal human being. For example: A teacher I had was
restraining my talents and trying his best to lower my self esteem, like
most people will. He had no right to try to fuck with my personality, to
try to sedate my free will. So, in retaliation, I calmly confronted him
and told him exactly what was wrong with him, and what he needed to do
to fix it. My beliefs were powerful enough to shift his beliefs and he
quickly backed off, apologized profusely and decided to let me control
my own curriculum. Now, I wasn't being a "bad ass." I wasn't a "rebel."
I just stated my rights, and stated that he wasn't respecting my rights,
and he bowed to my will (reason).
I live my life by respecting my own
rights and taking intelligent, nonviolent action when someone tries to
deny my rights. Every human being should possess enough self-respect and
willpower to demand respect from other humans. However, this is not the
case in the world today. The weak willed of the world are really just
people who lack self-respect, and I honestly pity them. I've read the
Weak of the Week section of this website, and it's obvious that the
reason why these people are complete idiots is because they're all
trying to convince themselves that they are courageous and powerful. If
I write DICK in my ex-boyfriend's yard, does that make me a Heartless
Bitch? No. That makes me a loser, with no life, and no self-respect. Why
should I take time out of my life to get "revenge" on someone who is
weaker, less intelligent, and just plain less respectful than myself?
Why should I even waste time trying to convince myself that I am a
Heartless Bitch because of the pain that I can cause those that are
"weaker" than myself? On the contrary, I am a Heartless Bitch because I
respect myself.
I am a Heartless Bitch because I will go to any means
necessary to gain the respect that I deserve, just for being intelligent
and confident.
I am a Heartless Bitch because I don't go out of my way
to be a Heartless Bitch. I just do what makes me happy, while respecting
other people, and go on with my life.
It's disappointing to think that
the average human being doesn't possess enough self respect to stand up
for themselves without mindlessly hurting others, but hey, at least some
of us are courageous, Heartless Bitches. I suppose we're just what
humans should be, but aren't.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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