Melanie
I dumped my live in ex-fiancé who turned out to have a cocktail of
mental disorders including BPD despite my friends and family's ignorant
statements of "but he was SUCH a nice guy." Yeah, sure, when he wasn't
"accidentally" ruining my clothes in his helpfulness to do the laundry
or any other of those wonderful things these crazy motherfuckers do.
("But I was abused as a child") Bite my ass.
While discussing returning to college for a bachelor's degree in public
relations (as opposed to the web design associates I was originally
going for) with my father, he suggested that it might not be a "stable"
field and that there's always a need for teachers and nurses. (My
mother, both my aunts, and my sister are all teachers. The only other
two females in my family have jobs as a bank teller and a dental
hygienist.) I explained to him that I had no desire to have him suggest
I take on another domestic profession ever again, and that I had no
plans to find a husband, settle down and pop out a child at 24 like my
sister.
I won't listen to you tell me the same sob story 20 times if you're not
doing anything to help change what's happening. Once is enough, people
need to vent, any more than two times with no new developments is and
total waste of my time since I have things I'm doing to actually improve
my life and not jawing off about how much everything sucks. And god help
you if you tell the same story and the facts have somehow changed from
what you originally said. Drama for pity is not a slogan of mine.
I know the difference between gossip and a real conversation and won't
tolerate bullshit.
At 14 I had my first job in the paint and hardware section of Sears and
would refuse to help men that came in making comments like "Can you call
someone for me? You must work in lingerie right?" Yes sir, because I'm a
110lb attractive female that means I don't know the difference between
flat and semi gloss and caulking. Would you like a blowjob with your
paint roller? Or shall I bend over so you can stick it in my ass
instead? Thank you. Glad to be of service.
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