Rafa
During all my life I have found myself helping and supporting the weak.
I would run to my best friend's house every time that one of the
assholes she used to get would abuse her (mentally or physically), and
be understanding and supporting. That is not true any more. I found out
that the only way of feeling good with oneself is to make things your
own. You can't spend your day whining to be loved...! Love yourself
first! You don't need anybody to confirm how wonderful you are. If you
are, you are, and if you don't like yourself, change. It's as easy as
that.
People have often felt offended by my attitude. It's just that I say
what I think, and do what I think it's right. I don't actually need any
of you (you meaning the whole world population) giving away your
opinions about my job, career, life, sexual orientation, political
beliefs, etc... Those are MY choices. Make yours instead of whining
around, asking people to make decisions for you... And that doesn't mean
that I can't take some advice, and even thank you for it. It only means that the
final decision corresponds to me and nobody else but me, and so shall it
remain for the rest of my life.
Also, I have found people to stare at me in a mixture of amazement and
repulsion when I have answered bitterly to comments full of
stereotypical assumptions. Whenever I hear ridiculous clichés such as
"the gentle sex", "gay men are so-o-o-o sensitive", "black people are
better suited for physical tasks", I feel like I have to either leave
the room or start yelling at the supposedly "tolerant" person who just
said it. Being a Heartless Bitch doesn't mean being a furious beast, so
I generally choose to leave the room.
For no reason will I allow anybody to be in control of my life. It is
fuckin' mine. I can share it, I can take you into it, but don't you
think that you are going to drive it. It's my life, not a fucking car.
Face it.
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