Sandy
I am a Heartless Bitch because I am an independent, practical, realistic
woman who has a brain and is not afraid to use it. I refuse to conform
to the stereotypical, "women should be" and "women should act,"
standards. I support myself, I take care of myself, and I do not depend
on anybody to fulfill my wants or needs. I control as much of my own
life as possible by the choices I make and I take full responsibility
for my successes, as well as my failures. When I want something, I work
hard to get it, and I do not think it's unrealistic to expect others to
do the same.
I am a Heartless Bitch because I lack respect and I have no tolerance
for those who complain and do absolutely nothing to fix their problems.
If I have a problem, I do something about it; it's that simple. I have
the fortitude to realistically evaluate what's going on in my life and
make appropriate changes when I think it's necessary for my own
happiness. I will be the first one to help someone out of a bad
situation as long as they are trying to do something about it
themselves, but if they do nothing except complain endlessly; I get
tired of it relatively fast and then I'm done with it.
I am a Heartless Bitch because I will not change my life, attitude, or
opinions to please anybody. I live my life exactly the way I want to,
and frankly, I don't care what anyone else thinks. I will not comply and
follow "the rules" to conform to anyone else's standards when mine work
just fine for me.
Nausea overcomes me every time I hear someone say they NEED a
relationship in order to be whole, complete, or happy. I have spent time
on my own, as well as in relationships, and I will not accept
unacceptable behavior for the purpose of keeping a man. I like and
appreciate my own company; therefore, I have no need, or desire, for
that matter, to settle for anything less than what I want. While I do
not perceive this as a bad attitude, I've been referred to as a bitch
for having it. Oh well! I have been in a relationship for the past 7
years and it's been great. I contribute the success of this relationship
to fact that he is also a "Heartless Bitch" and that is one of the
qualities I love about him. I will not take on a "fix-it" project!
I am not cold, mean, angry, or rude. I do, however, speak my mind, and
when I am asked for my opinion, I say it like I see it. I speak true and
I find it extremely difficult, sometimes impossible, to sugar-coat the
truth to protect frail egos or someone's insecurities. I'm simple,
direct, and to the point, so there is no misunderstanding me. I've
discovered that there are a lot of people that just can't stand to hear
the truth, without the cutesy bullshit thrown in, and they call me a
bitch. This does not mean that I insult people, but don't ask me for my
thoughts if you really don't want to hear them. I am also well aware of
my own business, and I have no problem minding it when I should.
While reading the articles on the HBI web site, I noticed that I have
uttered almost every word written there at some point. I have been
called a Heartless Bitch, among other things, for having this attitude
and the nerve to live my life according to my own standards. It has
become increasingly obvious that the people who refer to me as a bitch
are the same people who have no self-esteem, self-confidence, or
self-worth; they are miserable with themselves and their lives, but yet
they have the audacity to make a futile attempt to insult me because I
am happy and content with mine!
If this qualifies me as Heartless Bitch, then I will take that as a
compliment, and I will continue to laugh right along with the rest of
the "Heartless Bitches" at the idiots who just can't seem to grasp these
ever-so-simple concepts.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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