You're not a Bitch - You're an ASSHOLE
by
Feb 5, 2007
I'll keep saying it: Way too many women don't know the difference between a
bitch and an asshole. Women who are assholes under the pretense of being
strong, or being "catty" to other women under the pretense of being
straightforward; women who say "I'm not a feminist". Gossips. Liars.
Cliques of gossips and liars.
Taking a stand and out-arguing involves
using facts and being principled. Interrupting, attacking, using
generalities, wandering from the subject, manipulating and shouting down
isn't out-arguing someone; it's out-assholing someone.
Thinking clearly
and challenging yourself to be reasonable, and speaking bluntly, while
knowing the difference between a fact and YOUR emotional reactions and
opinions, is strong. Letting your hatred and jealousy spew all over
someone isn't strong, it's infantile.
WAY too many women are fooling
themselves that they are Heartless Bitches, when they are merely
assholes.
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